: : t.a.n.d.a. t.a.n.y.a. : :
Tandanya Allah dah amik balik sikit2 ingatan aku. Yer lh kan... umo pun dh berapa skrg nih...
: : a.l.h.a.m.d.u.l.i.l.l.a.h. : :
1. Certified IT Manager [CITM]
2. Certified Data Center Professional [CDCP]
Next year apa plak yer? mmmm ITILv3 & Project Management Professional pun ok...
: : n.a.s.i. l.e.m.a.k. : :
PKR menang besar di Permatang Pauh. TAHNIAH!!!
Malam ni aku masuk KL lagi. Pi amik Siti kat Concord. Hebat depa ni. Aku bawa depa pi makan nasi lemak kat Kelab Sultan Sulaiman Kg Baru. Sorang 2 bungkus, lauk ayam goreng dan sambal kerang.
: : m.e.n.c.a.r.i. k.e.t.e.n.a.n.g.a.n. : :
Tidak ada tempat di bumi ini yang mampu menjanjikan ketenangan dan kedamaian hidup, melainkan rumah Allah. Justeru terdapat sebuah hadis Nabi s.a.w. menegaskan bahawa rumah Allah menjanjikan bukan sekadar ketenangan, malah beberapa nikmat lain sebagai dorongan berbuat kebaikan.
sumber : Sinar Jumaat
: : d.a.y. o.u.t. : :
Yang penting sekali, laptop aku dah berdesup!!! :D
: : g.o.i.n.g. s.o.u.t.h : :
Kalo mommi nak tau, kemeja hitam semalam tu adalah yang baju ke dua diseterikakan huhuhu... sebabnya dalam perkiraan minda, selatan semenanjung akan hujan lebat menyaksikan pertemuan pertama kita =)) hujan rahmat buat pasangan pengantin.
SF menggolekan tayarnya pada 0830 pagi menghala ke selatan. Awal perjalanan tonang2 je.... bila masuk sempadan Johor hujan punya lah lebat. Stress kalau driving hujan lebat nih, so i've to slowdown to 60km/h and rest kat R&R. Lagipun i'm not in hurry becoz i believe kurma kambing itu tak akan habis :D Finally... SF selamat sampai around 1130. Memandangkan mommi masih belum bolos kastam... boleh la jenguk para sahabat di NIOSH JB.
Ni aktiviti setelah kenyang
: : s.e.p.a.n.j.a.n.g. j.a.l.a.n. k.e.n.a.n.g.a.n. : :
24 Ogos 2008
Amir smpai di rumah dalam 1130am. As usual kami akan makan dan minum di Ameer Ali. Kami baisa habiskan masa di situ berjam-jam juga. Tapi hari ni kami nak jalan2 ke KL. Dia dah lama tak drive ke KL. Destinasi pertama kami ke Setiawangsa jumpa one of his staff. Makan bihun goreng. His next stop kat Kelana Jaya. Jauh juga... tapi we were not in hurry. So boleh ronda2 Keramat, Kementah, Semarak, Kg Baru, Chow Kit... memang nostalgia. Dulu aku pernah menetap di Kg Datuk Keramat sekitar 1989-1993. Banyak juga kenangan sepanjang 4 tahun tu. Tadi sempat juga lewat Masjid Kementah, masjid pertama aku singgah di KL sebelum register kat UTM Jalan Semarak. UTM Semarak tadi aku tengok memang tak ada perubahan. Dari luar, nampak juga blok2 kuliah aku selamat 3 tahun.
Kemudian kami lewati Kg Baru. Memang ada perubahan... semua kaki lima dah dinaik taraf. Dah tak de lagi gerai2 makan di situ. Entah ke mana... tapi nampak lebih bersih dari sebelum ni. Sempat juga kami geledah lorong2 Chow Kit. Dah banyak perubahan.
Seterusnya kami melewati PJ untuk ke Kelana Jaya. PJ pun aku pernah duduk selama 6 tahun. Tadi kami masuk semua jalan2 yang penah kami lalu dulu. Lorong2, kawasan elit, setinggan, kg indon. Sempat juga singgah depan rumah sewa 'Markas 33' nostalgia! TheSun lama dan baru... huhuhu... PJ Old Town, PJ State. Medan Selera 223... suasana masih sama, tapi makin buruk :)) tapi rasa teh tarik, nasik lemak panas masih sama ;) masa minum kat 223 ni, kami call sorg lagi kawan Wancul... dia pun join. Lama juga kat 223... Kalau dulu kami blh lepak 4... 5... jam kat situ almost every night :D
Destinasi akhir, rumah kawan Amir kat Bandar Bukit Puchong. Kat umah Imran ni wife dia goreng mee plak. Hari ni memang jalan2 dan makan2 saja... kekenyangan :D esok boleh la bercuti dengan senang hati...
: : r.e.a.d.y. t.o. f.l.y. : :
I open my eyes the world seems a different place,
The colours are brighter and the air is sweet to taste
See it’s like I woke up from a nightmare that tied me down,
I smothered and trapped inside a sleep way underground
It’s time I learned to fall,
To say the word goodbye
To feel the sunlight on my face,
Maybe that means
I’m ready to fly,
I wanna breathe in and breathe out and be who I am,
Let go of fear wanna feel aliveI’m ready to fly,
The more that you hold me back you set me free,
You help my heart decide,
ohhhh Maybe I’m,
maybe I’m I’m ready to fly
Where is your faith, where is your love for me?
Why do you fight the things I imagine in my dreams?
See the poison is strong, an addiction is tough to break
But love is the hardest thing I have ever had to shake
It’s time to break these chains,
To look you in the eye,
To tell you that its over now,
So, maybe that means
I’m ready to fly,
I wanna breathe in and breathe out and be who I am,
Let go of fear wanna feel alive
I’m ready to fly,
The more that you hold me back you set me free,
You help my heart decide,
Ohhh Maybe I’m,
maybe I’m I’m ready to fly.
(Give me the strength to walk away)
(Give me the strength to stay the road ahead)
Even if it’s a lonely place
(Give me the hope to mend this heart)
(Give me the chance to see love smile, smile again)
To see love smile
It’s time I learned to fall,
To say the word goodbye
To feel the sunlight on my face,
Maybe that means, Ohh
Maybe that means
I’m ready to fly,
I wanna breathe in and breathe out and be who I am,
Let go of fear wanna feel alive
I’m ready to fly,
The more that you hold me back you set me free,
You help my heart decide,
OhhhMaybe I’m,
Maybe I’m ready,
Uhhmmm, yeahh
Maybe, I’m
Maybe, I’m ready to fly
Uhmm,
Like I am
: : a.h.a.a.a.a : :
A friend of a friend has called his ex-girlfriend six times since she broke up with him. I told my friend to bestow my breaking up advice on him. Whether you want someone back or not, if you follow the rules below, you will maintain your dignity, maybe win the person back, or eventually get over them:
1. Ride Off Into The Sunset
In college I took a class called "American Western Movies". Give me a break, ok? It was summer session. But this class did teach me something. I learned I wanted to be a cowboy. They are so cool, collected, never play their hand, never look rattled, and they are always confident.
One thing they all did was ride off as the sun set on the horizon after their business was done.
Riding off into the sunset keeps our dignity. When a girl breaks up with me, I will say:
"OK, it was great getting to know you over the past (insert length of time).You take care."
My business is done.
Then, I will figuratively ride off into the sunset. I won't tell her how much I miss her. I won't tell her she made a mistake. I won't call, email or text. I won't mention her to mutual friends. I'll be gone from her life.
Suddenly, it will dawn on the girl that she is not getting her money's worth for this breakup. It is true: people who do the breaking up have an air of power to them. They like being the decision maker, and having the control. But after I walk away like it's no problem, she'll start to think:
"Wow, why isn't he shaken up over this? Did he even care that I broke up with him?"
Or even better, the ever-popular and coveted: "Did I do the right thing breaking up with him?"
That's when you know you're in business.
2. Apply the Wizard of Oz Effect
Of course, most likely, we are in total pain and anguish after a break up. But, we can't let that show. Remember: "Pay no mind to that man behind the curtain?" We can, behind the curtain, cry, complain, yell, be angry, and hurt. But, we must craft the appearance on the outside of being fine with everything. We need to look happy on the outside to the other person 100% of the time we see them post-breakup. This also gives the illusion that you might be seeing someone else, or that you've got other things going on. Of course you're miserable and there's NOTHING going on in your life, but they don't have to know it!
3. Enact the Verb in "Breaking Up"
Get rid of all evidence of them -- put it all in a closet, under your bed, or anywhere. I'm a sucker for a strand of hair or her shampoo smell left on a pillow after a girl is over. After the breakup, this must go: wash the sheets! Remember, in breaking up, to think of it like a guillotine: make it fast.
On a guillotine, you'd rather have a sharp blade slice your head right off than a blunt blade repeatedly cut and cut until your head finally fell off. If it's a break up they want, make it clean for them. It will look good, and it will be easier on you. Flush them right out of your life immediately, and completely.
4. Don't Look Back
It's hard to accomplish this. We know not to look back, just like we know not to look down when someone says don't look down...but we still look down. But, make it easy on yourself: looking back and saying stuff like: "Gosh, just two weeks ago, we were out to dinner and she stayed over here and we were so close..." ...will just make it more painful. You can't look back until it's time to look back when you're truly over it.
5. Remember You'll Get Over It
The best thing about breaking up is those following mornings you wake up after you've truly gotten over someone. You're renewed, alive, and ready to see what the world has to offer. Keep pushing through for this feeling, remember all those people you thought you'd never get over (you know you ended up getting over them), and as Jim Morrison once crooned: "break on through to the other side!"
Well I don't know about you, but after going through all that, I'm inspired to get dumped!
So, do you agree with these rules? Do you have any nightmare breakup stories? If a guy you dumped followed these rules, would you start reconsidering? Would you be annoyed if you dumped a guy and he didn't get upset?
Posted by Rich Santos - Dating Blogger - Marie Claire
: : m.e.s.i.n. a.n.g.k.a.t. : :
1. dh ada org tekan butang naik / turun, next person yg nak naik / turun akan tekan lagi butang tu.
2. bila kat luar lif tu ada je yang borak2. tapi bila masuk dalam sunyi sepi. nak kentut pun seriau org lain dengar :))
: : k.e.n.u.r.i. l.a.g.i. : :
: : h.a.n.t.u. t.e.n.g.g.e.k. : :
: : o.w.h. K.L.C.C. : :
: : k.e.s.a.l.k.u. : :
: : k.a.t.a.k.a.n. t.i.d.a.k. : :
: : d.u.r.i.a.n. t.y.m. : :
Kata abam durian atas sana tu... durian D24 ni dari Pahang. 5 bijon rm20. Alhamdulillah... terubat sudah aku yang mengidam durian.
Hohoho... boleh ke aku pegi gym lagi malam nih. Ada yang pocah porut pulok!!!
: : j.a.c.k. & s.h.i.d.a. 2 : :
Kalau ikutkan aturcara majlis. Pengantin lelaki sampai kol 12:45 cumanya ketibaan rombongan agak lewat sedikit dalam kol 01:00 So majlis Marhaban dimulakan juga sebelum ketibaan rombongan pengantin lelaki. Sementara menunggu tu, aku pekena cendol semangkuk. POWER!!!!
Tak lama lepas tu, Jack dan rombongan pun sampai. Jack & Shida pilih tema kaler GOLD
Sempat jua borak2 dgn Ibu & Ayah. Mereka sungguh2 suruh aku pergi Kulaifornia 16 Ogos nanti. Pergi Jumaat tido sana. "tido rumah ibu, ibu bagi bilik". Serba salah plak rasanya. Itulah kelemahan aku. Memang dari kali akhir aku jumpa ibu & ayah April lepas mereka suruh pergi Kulaifornia.
Apa2 pun selamat menempuh alam berumah tangga buat Jack & Shida...